Friday, January 9, 2009

A Lesson on Hope

Although I'm not a huge follower of Rick Reilly, I've always liked, and some really liked, the articles of his that I have read. Especially this one

Not only because it involves my Utes and that he thinks they should be National Champions this year, but because he calls the BCS (the so called "elitests" (sp?) of college football) on the carpet and believes EVERY team should have a shot at winning the Championship (just like in basketball) - not because you are in a certain conference and have lots of money.

I know most of you don't enjoy sports the way I do or read many articles about sports. But may I recommend the following one? It's worth it - promise. I will admit, it made me cry and gave me a little more hope in mankind. Enjoy.

There are some games in which cheering for the other side
feels better than winning.
by Rick Reilly

They played the oddest game in high school football history last month down in Grapevine, Texas. It was Grapevine Faith vs. Gainesville State School and everything about it was upside down. For instance, when Gainesville came out to take the field, the Faith fans made a 40-yard spirit line for them to run through.

Did you hear that? The other team's fans?

They even made a banner for players to crash through at the end. It said, "Go Tornadoes!" Which is also weird, because Faith is the Lions. It was rivers running uphill and cats petting dogs. More than 200 Faith fans sat on the Gainesville side and kept cheering the Gainesville players on—by name.

"I never in my life thought I'd hear people cheering for us to hit their kids," recalls Gainesville's QB and middle linebacker, Isaiah. "I wouldn't expect another parent to tell somebody to hit their kids. But they wanted us to!"

And even though Faith walloped them 33-14, the Gainesville kids were so happy that after the game they gave head coach Mark Williams a sideline squirt-bottle shower like he'd just won state. Gotta be the first Gatorade bath in history for an 0-9 coach.

But then you saw the 12 uniformed officers escorting the 14 Gainesville players off the field and two and two started to make four. They lined the players up in groups of five—handcuffs ready in their back pockets—and marched them to the team bus. That's because Gainesville is a maximum-security correctional facility 75 miles north of Dallas. Every game it plays is on the road.

This all started when Faith's head coach, Kris Hogan, wanted to do something kind for the Gainesville team. Faith had never played Gainesville, but he already knew the score. After all, Faith was 7-2 going into the game, Gainesville 0-8 with 2 TDs all year. Faith has 70 kids, 11 coaches, the latest equipment and involved parents. Gainesville has a lot of kids with convictions for drugs, assault and robbery—many of whose families had disowned them—wearing seven-year-old shoulder pads and ancient helmets.

So Hogan had this idea. What if half of our fans—for one night only—cheered for the other team? He sent out an email asking the Faithful to do just that. "Here's the message I want you to send:" Hogan wrote. "You are just as valuable as any other person on planet Earth."

Some people were naturally confused. One Faith player walked into Hogan's office and asked, "Coach, why are we doing this?" And Hogan said, "Imagine if you didn't have a home life. Imagine if everybody had pretty much given up on you. Now imagine what it would mean for hundreds of people to suddenly believe in you."

Next thing you know, the Gainesville Tornadoes were turning around on their bench to see something they never had before. Hundreds of fans. And actual cheerleaders!

"I thought maybe they were confused," said Alex, a Gainesville lineman (only first names are released by the prison). "They started yelling 'DEE-fense!' when their team had the ball. I said, 'What? Why they cheerin' for us?'"

It was a strange experience for boys who most people cross the street to avoid. "We can tell people are a little afraid of us when we come to the games," says Gerald, a lineman who will wind up doing more than three years. "You can see it in their eyes. They're lookin' at us like we're criminals. But these people, they were yellin' for us! By our names!"

Maybe it figures that Gainesville played better than it had all season, scoring the game's last two touchdowns. Of course, this might be because Hogan put his third-string nose guard at safety and his third-string cornerback at defensive end. Still.

After the game, both teams gathered in the middle of the field to pray and that's when Isaiah surprised everybody by asking to lead. "We had no idea what the kid was going to say," remembers Coach Hogan. But Isaiah said this: "Lord, I don't know how this happened, so I don't know how to say thank You, but I never would've known there was so many people in the world that cared about us."

And it was a good thing everybody's heads were bowed because they might've seen Hogan wiping away tears.

As the Tornadoes walked back to their bus under guard, they each were handed a bag for the ride home—a burger, some fries, a soda, some candy, a Bible and an encouraging letter from a Faith player.

The Gainesville coach saw Hogan, grabbed him hard by the shoulders and said, "You'll never know what your people did for these kids tonight. You'll never, ever know."

And as the bus pulled away, all the Gainesville players crammed to one side and pressed their hands to the window, staring at these people they'd never met before, watching their waves and smiles disappearing into the night.

Anyway, with the economy six feet under and Christmas running on about three and a half reindeer, it's nice to know that one of the best presents you can give is still absolutely free.

Hope.

Friday, January 2, 2009

SUGAR HIGH!

HOW SWEET IT IS!

Congratulations Utes!
Sugar Bowl Champs

13-0
the nation's only undefeated team

14 wins in a row
the nation's longest winning streak

8 straight wins in bowl games
also the nation's longest streak!

The FIRST team to bust the BCS.
The ONLY team to do it TWICE.

Sugar, spice and everything nice,
that's what the Utes are made of.

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Merry Sickmas........

and hopefully a Healthy New Year!

It seems like every other post I've done for the last few months I've made mention of someone in our house being sick. So why should I stop the trend now?

It really all started on Monday. I stated that I thought we were over the yuck we had been spreading to each other. We'll not so much - just a different yuck this time. When Sarah woke from her nap on Monday I went in to get her to find her, her pillow and sheet covered in throw up. It was almost time to leave for the doctor (which I was taking her in just for her cough before this!) so I quickly gave her a bath and changed her clothes. On the way to the doctor she threw up again and of course I didn't think to bring extra clothes. So she went to the doctor nice and smelly! Sarah had to see the nurse practitioner and she said her lungs sounded clear and that she just had the stomach flu. I wasn't convinced about her cough being nothing, but I didn't push it because I wanted to get home and get her and I changed out of our smelly clothes (I stunk from carrying her). Sarah threw up one more time on the way home from the doctor's and that was thankfully the last time. By Tuesday she was feeling much better - but she still had the cough. More on that in a minute.

Wednesday I got a call from Jeff about 11:30 am that he would be home shortly and was headed to bed because his stomach wasn't feeling well. A few times during the day Emilie complained that her tummy hurt. Long story short - Jeff was sick with the stomach yuck, but never threw up, just had that other stuff (you know what I mean). By 8:00 pm I started to feel it coming on. We do the 12 days of Christmas to someone every year of course it was the last night of 12 days, but neither Jeff or I were up to going out - so I have to give a shout out to our Home Teacher for coming by and taking it for us! Your the best! Then at 9:45 pm Emilie jumped out of bed and threw up in the bathroom sink. My stomach was already in bad shape with the other stuff and it almost made me throw up cleaning it up. I'm just grateful she made it to the sink! TMI yet? It gets better.

Jeff slept with Emilie and Ada just incase Emilie threw up again - which she did 3 times during the night (but somehow through it all she was spared from the other stuff!). I had Sarah in bed with me because she has been waking up coughing so much. She started stiring at one point and I reached over to get her and realized her diaper had leaked a bit (stomach sleeper!) so I decided to get up and change her. I went in her room and changed her diaper. Just as I got her new diaper on I felt like I was going to pass out. So I grabbed Sarah off the changing table who was still asleep and ran in the bathroom. Set her on the floor, got on the toilet for the one and started throwing up in the bathtub for the other. Gratefully after the night that was the end of the throwing up - but not quite for the other stuff for
Jeff and I.

By the moring all of us, but Ada, were wiped out. It was quite the Christmas morning! I got a few pictures, but not many. I was way too tired. Somehow still came even at the risk of catching the yuck. Ada earned the gold star of the day. She handed out presents to all us sicklies to open.

Sarah with her Pedialyte pop
Ada and Emilie
Yep - that is me. Sadly that was probably my best side that day.
Then Ada helped out with Sarah most of the day. I kept forgetting to feed the poor child because no one else felt like eating. Our Christmas day muchies constisted of otter pops, gatorade and some saltine crackers. She had breakfast, but then I think the rest of the day she just had some snacks. By 5:00 pm she said "I'm STARVING! Could you please fix me something to eat?!" Like I said - gold star!

It wasn't exactly how I planned Christmas, but it will definitely be a memorable one!

By yesterday evening we were all feeling much better and we finally sat down together and had our first meal in 48 hours. Waffles, hashbrowns and cooked ham. And honestly it tasted so good! It was nice to have some real food. I think I can confidently say that we are all over the stomach yuck and as for now Ada has been spared.

Sarah is a different story when it comes to being over everything. I took her back to the doctor on Friday because her cough had gotten worse. She is now back on the nebulizer until Tuesday (she was put on one after her and I got home from our SL visit a little over a month ago) and two medicines. One to clear up her nose and the other to help with the cough. The poor girl! But she is taking it in stride and is good to take her medicine and sit still turing her treatments. I knew she was really tired today and I was trying to get everyone lunch and then get her up for a nap and as I finished making my sandwich I turned around to find this:

Gotta love her!

I'm not a big NY resolution person - but I now have one:

To quit posting about someone in this family being sick!

On a side note - we had looked into going to Utah Christmas day or the day after but it just wasn't in the cards. But between illness and weather I don't think we would have made it anyway. We had rain that froze, so the morning after Christmas everything was a sheet of ice. Many on the highways were shut down - the whole toll road across Indiana was shut down. Accidents everywhere and hundreds of flights cancelled. There was even a plane at Midway airport that ran off the runway trying to take off. Craziness!! Then last night we had pouring rain and thunder and lightening. The kind we get during the spring and summer (if you haven't experienced a midwest thunder and lightening storm - you are missing out!) and then more rain today. There are flood watches out all over the state.

All I can say is this has been one interesting Winter break and there is still a week to go! We'll see what happens next!

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas Everyone!

"At the focal point of all human history, a point illuminated by a new star in the heavens revealed for just such a purpose, probably no other mortal watched--none but a poor young carpenter, a beautiful virgin mother, and silent stabled animals who had not the power to utter the sacredness they had seen. Shepherds would soon arrive and later, wise men from the East. Later yet the memory of that night would bring Santa Claus and Frosty and Rudolph--and all would be welcome. But first and forever there was just a little family, without toys or trees or tinsel. With a baby--that's how Christmas began. It is for this baby that we shout in chorus: 'Hark! the herald angels sing Glory to the newborn King! . . . Mild he lays his glory by, Born that man no more may die; Born to raise the sons of earth, Born to give them second birth' ( Hymns, no. 209)."

-Jeffrey R. Holland

Monday, December 22, 2008

Overdue Update

After I posted yesterday I realized it had been almost 3 weeks since my last post. Where has the time gone? I'm sure most of you feel the same way as Christmas is only 3 days away and there is still much to do! Anyway, here is the update of what has gone on at our house the last 3 weeks.

I THINK we are mostly over the yuck that we have been spreading to each other. Although Sarah has started with a cough again and we are headed to the doctor this afternoon.
Part of the reason I didn't post for a while is that since we've all been sick, our computer decided to get sick too. It got a virus. So we had to take it to someone to fix. When we got it back I couldn't get the card reader to work. I searched for days online trying to download different drivers to get it to work. No luck. I was getting really bugged that I wasn't going to be able to download pictures. I called Jeff at work and asked him to go to buy a new card reader. I then was in the basement getting something from the storage room and decided to look in my camera box to see if it came with cables. Sure enough - it had one I could attach right to the camera to my computer. Thanks for putting up with me Jeff! Glad to be back in business!

I told Jeff this year I was done with real trees. I know I'm a scruge when it come to them. It's just one less mess to clean up daily and one less mouth to remember to feed. I wanted an artificial - the 9ft. pre-lite one from Costco to be exact. Just before we left for our Thanksgiving trip, he gave in. Told me to go get it. But alas I didn't have time. So the Monday after we got back we went to Costco. They were out, but the Costco by Jeff's work had some. So he went to that Costco on Tuesday and got the last one. The bonus - it was $100 cheaper than before Thanksgiving. Sometimes it does pay off to wait and I couldn't be happier with it! I love, love, love it! The only problem is that I didn't have enough ornaments to cover that size of tree! I think I'll have to hit the clearance sales this year for some new ones.
Here she is - my new baby:
We had our ward Christmas breakfast on the 13th. I signed up to make breakfast casserole. I decided to make two a 9.5 X 13.5 size one (notice the extra 1/2 inch on each side!) and a 2qt one. I got up early to make them - I'm all about the freshly made if possible. I got ready while they were cooking and they were done about 15 minutes before we had to leave. I took them out and then decided to put them back in to keep them warm until we left. I put the small one in - no problem. As I started to get the big one I realized Sarah was headed towards me. So I had the big one with one had resting the half the pan on the stove, trying to keep Sarah from touching the oven door with my body. As I started to reach for the other half of the pan, the grate it was resting on slipped and you guessed it - I couldn't catch it with my other hand and it landed upsidedown on the over door. I didn't think to take a picture of it before I cleaned up some of it (too chappy about it and not enough time!) But you get the idea:

This is part of it that I threw in the sink
And no the egg shells were not IN the casserole - they were already in the sink!
This is about 1/2 of what was there - not pretty!
Of course most of it landed inbetween the crack of the door and the stove. So I left the stove open while we went to the breakfast and cleaned it up when we got home.
I called Jeff (he was at the church helping to set up) and told him he had to run to the grocery store and get a dozen doughnuts. Wasn't a good way to start off the day!
But we had a great time at the party and Santa and Mrs. Claus came. Emi and Ada of course want nothing to do with the man - they just wanted a candy cane. You can only imagine what Sarah is thinking by her expression!

Aren't they cute?

The only other news worthy item is our weather. It's freezing and we've had a ton of snow. More that usual around here and we are supposed to get more tonight. Christmas break started a day early thanks to the nasty storm that blew through here last Thursday. It had everything - rain, sleet, snow. Even some thunder and lightening. Crazy stuff. Today's temp isn't much better. -5 with the feel like of -25. But we are supposed to "warm" up to 27 degress tomorrow. Don't think I'll be pulling out the shorts and capri's just yet!

The weather isn't helping me to accomplish those last minute errands, but I guess we don't have to worry about whether or not we will have a white Christmas.
Done!

Sunday, December 21, 2008

Home church?

It was probably about a year ago on a Sunday morning when we were getting ready for church and Ada said "Mom can we do home church? Kids get to do home school, why can't we do home church?"

Today I'm thinking it would be a really good idea since the actual temp is -7 and the feel like temp is -33. On days like today it's VERY, VERY tempting. If Jeff didn't have to speak today, I would highly consider the option.

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Thanksgiving Weekend

Happy Thanksgiving!
(I know I'm late, but better late than never right?)

For Thanksgiving we went to visit our good friends, the Brown's, who recently left us and moved to Pennsylvania. We left Tuesday evening and drove to Sandusky, OH where we overnighted and then drove the rest of the way Wednesday. It took much longer to get there then we anticipated, but we made it!

We had a great time hanging out with the Brown's and Grandma and Grandpa Brown who were visiting from England. While we were there we watched lots of movies, played lots of games, stayed up way too late and ate lots of yummy food!

On Friday Jeff and I and the girls drove up to Hershey, PA. Can you say Heaven on Earth? For me, yes - endless chocolate! We took the tour that shows you how they make the chocolate and got free chocolate at the end, then we took the trolley tour of the town and got free chocolate at the end. I was really starting to like the fact you could take a tour a get free chocolate! We had a great time seeing the sights and smelling the chocolate. Hershey is definitely my kind of town!

Saturday we celebrated Amy's birthday. Her birthday isn't until the 1st, but her family wanted to celebrate with her while she was home from school. Saturday afternoon we went to Longwood Gardens to see the Christmas displays and lights and go to an ice skating show. It was really pretty and lots of fun, but really cold!

Sunday we got up early to drive home. The drive home also took longer than expected between weather (we were in rain or snow the whole way home), lunch and traffic. The bonus of the drive was that we got to take Amy back to Chicago with us! (I'll explain why later) We were making really good time until we stopped for lunch that took over and hour! We stopped at an oasis off the turnpike and it was really busy and short staffed at every place in there to eat. The girls and Amy got McDonalds and ended up waiting for about 20 minutes for their food and then it ended up being really gross. Jeff and I got sandwiches that weren't that great either. Oh well what do you expect from a turnpike oasis?

Once we got back on the road we hit some traffic, but not too bad. But once we got near the Ohio, Indiana border we got stuck in traffic waiting to pay the toll. 8 miles of cars waiting in line to pay. We were stop and go for almost an hour. But we did eventually make it home and we were all glad to finally get out of the car for good! We had our moments, but overall everyone were good travelers especially for such a long day.

Unfortunately Sunday morning Sarah woke up with an eye infection. So I knew Monday morning we were headed to the doctor - again. She is still sick from Salt Lake as am I. Plus Emilie and Ada still both have coughs. I swear for the last two months someone in our house has been sick - and quite frankly I'm sick of it! Then Monday morning Sarah's other eye was infected and the doctor told me she was bordering getting an ear infection. Seriously! When will it end?

Anyway, on Monday I kept the girls home from school and after the doctors visit we took Amy downtown Chicago so she could pick up her citizenship papers. What we thought would take maybe half and hour took over 2 hours. Her appointment was at 1:00 so we decided to get lunch after. Finally at 2:30 the girls and I left and found a McDonald's and waited there for Amy to get done. After that we drove her to the airport. Gratefully her flight ended up being delayed an hour because of the weather here. If it hadn't she would probably have missed her original flight because it took so long at the imigration office. But she made it and we finally made it home about 5:15. Needless to say we were all very happy to be done in the car yesterday too!

So after a very fun and very exhausting week, we are trying to recover and get everone well, catch up on laundry, cleaning and errands. I think I'll just go take a nap!
Watching a movie
Mark, Ada, Amy, Emilie, Stephen
Heaven on Earth

The pink singing cows on the tour

The purple singing cows on the tour

Me and Sarah on the chocolate tour

Jeff and Ada on the chocolate tour

Emilie - not sure what is up with that face!
Maybe the smell of the chocolate was overtaking her.

Me, Emilie and Sarah (love that face!) on the trolley tour

Jeff and Ada on the trolley tour

Emilie and I

We tried Sarah with Santa - she wasn't so sure about him. Emilie and Ada want nothing to do with the man. They just want him to show up Christmas Eve and that's it!

One of my favorite parts about Hershey is the kisses on the top of the street lights!
Seriously love this town.

Sarah and I at Longwood Gardens

Emilie, Ada, Jeff and Sarah
This is a fountain that shoots the water across over your head

Emilie

Ada

Sarah

Us in front of the big Christmas tree - it was amazing!
We hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving!